I NEED YOUR HELP! PLEASE ANSWER!
I've been texting with the Lady With Whom I Had a Nice Date while away on vacation in New Orleans. There was playful banter, some confession (mostly by her), and just on and off communications.
Then she texts this:
"I have a question.
Just a question.
Don’t get mad please.
Has anyone ever suggested that you may be narcissistic?"
"Every single thing I’ve said. And every single question I’ve answered you’ve brought back to you."
And then she throws it onto me:
"But if that question is a deal breaker please let me know."
I have no words (but I do....)
My inclination is that this relationship has dead ended right here, because now I'll be self-conscious every time we interact, and even if I start a sentence with the word "I," she'll automatically think to herself, "oh, see, I knew he was a narcissist..."
I was in a relationship like that, so my hunch is that this is going to be a re-run of that kind of thing: I've already been put into this hole, and there's no way to get out.
On the other hand, we only met once and maybe if we spend time together she'll realize she pre-judged me.