I shouldn't have agreed to this....advice needed....
I made plans with EldestDaughter (35 years) to spend two weeks with her and her daughter (3 years) during the last two weeks of August in a house that I'm renting in northern France.
However, after the contentious week I just spent with them, I'm having second thoughts. All throughout the week I was nervous and upset by their arguing, even though the 3 year old is just acting like a 3 year old.
I want to tell EldesDaughter that I don't want to spend 2 weeks watching them have fights, especially it's because it's she who starts most of them with her impatience and anxiety. She expects the kids to do everything on her schedule, and gets upset if the kid doesn't nap on time or eat what she puts in front of her.
It's not something I want to do for two weeks, and I invited other members of the family to join us, and I'm sure they don't want to see this either.
Should I sent her a message saying that she has to get herself help, because I don't want to spend my vacation with them fighting (and me trying to get them to stop?)