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Day 147

Raven - Finally Had Enough

Raven's married to Honeybun's brother (Bear), and the two of them have a 3 year old child. Bear was in his late-20's and she was 17 when they started dating. A year later she got pregnant, and they got married a little over a year ago. She is still a child - Just now old enough to drink. She is obsessed with her own beauty (she is gorgeous) and gets moody when attention is on her child more than her. She has cheated on Bear their entire relationship with multiple men, then self-harms for pity when Bear confronts her about it. We've all lovingly told her that if she's not happy, she could leave with no hard feelings from us, and we'd all help Bear raise the child. We always treated her like family, and she looked up to me like a big sister. Well, Bear may finally be done. She cheated again (with a married man), and Bear is kicking her out. I've told Honeybun he can stay with us a few days to avoid Raven and clear his head, and their mom has volunteered to take care of her grandchild while her son grieves and makes plans.

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  • Otter Otter
    4 weeks ago

    Side note: Please do not think I only blame Raven. Bear should not have been dating a child to begin with, especially when he was so close to 30. He's a bit too immature for women his own age, and it seemed like he stayed with Raven for so long so that he could show off his "hot" wife. She was only a child, and he should have left her to grow up at her own pace. However, they both made their decisions of their own free will.

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  • RavDiablo RavDiablo
    4 weeks ago

    Let's hope that the families can come together and do right by the child. No reason the kid should suffer because the parents weren't quite mature enough to know what they were doing.....

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  • Otter Otter
    4 weeks ago

    Raven's family more than likely won't be doing anything. She only has her mom, who is only ever interested in her grandchild to take pictures for social media to make herself look like a loving grandma. Then, she promptly gives the child back and leaves. Honeybun, his mom, and I are the ones stepping up to the plate right now. His sister will likely help out as well. We're showering Bear and child in affection and support.

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  • RavDiablo RavDiablo
    4 weeks ago

    I'm so glad your family is doing this; you'll see how joyful this will all be, once you accept that Raven & her family won't be of much help.

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