What's It's Like When Your Libido Goes South....
NewGal and I have been hanging together for about 5 weeks now - since the week before Thanksgiving. She knows all about my health issues, and has been right with me as my finished my treatment. She even took an awesome photo of me and my bros the morning I went for my Coney Island dunk.
I've spent the night at her place a few times, and while there is lots of cuddling, I just can't muster up anything close to a sexual desire for her.
Which breaks my heart, because I really like her. She's smart, funny, kind and generous, and we have lots of fun together.
My lack of sexual interest is coming from two directions. The first is that I'm still recovering from the hormone therapy, which has essentially killed off my libido.
But I think the other part is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She's cute, but she has a body that I'm not all that attracted to; she's a bit on the chubby side, and while I have been with women with curves, I'm just not feeling hers.
I just don't know what to do because I really like her and we snuggle all so well......