Would you visit your mother after she treated you horribly?
Dad & brother voted for Trump. Mother has indicated in the past that my sexuality is embarrassing for her, and "the bible says it's wrong."
Why would I visit any of them again?
Would you allow the meanest, most selfish, inconsiderate bigots you've ever met in your life in your home?
Every single person I've met in my life has treated me better than my immediate family. I wanted to run away at age 9. The pain of how awful they've been to me makes me wish they were all dead.
My mother wants to visit me. I'm ready to tell her never mind, please do not visit me.