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Day 472

WID wants to explore sexuality more deeply - am ready?

I've had a pretty active sex life in the last 15 years or so, since I split from my wife. Before that, I had slept with a few women, and the experiences were good, but I haven't done any crazy stuff, including "accessories."

The WID (Woman I'm Dating) has a very pro-active interest in sex, one I've never really been comfortable engaging in. It's not that I'm a prude (I've had sex in some interesting places), but on the other hand, I've never given much thought to "exploration.'

WID sends a very honest text: sharing interests, cuddling and love are all very important to her, but so is keeping the physical realm fresh and active. And so she wants to engage me in this realm, so that we don't wake up one day in the future feeling that there's no physical "spark" between us, in fear that our sensuality will diminish to the point that we are close friends who share a bed.

She suggests exploring all sorts of things to keep our sexuality burning (we've only slept together a few times, and things are most certainly going along nicely) including the idea of sex toys. Lead me there; old dog, new tricks.

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  • Otter Otter
    10 months ago

    I don't know how much experience you have with toys, but I'm a COMPLETE newbie. A couple of weeks ago we started experimenting. Just a very small vibrator and flavored water-based lube - humble beginnings, but gotta start somewhere.

    I know that's nothing to most people, but WOW did it make a difference! Start small - it'll still make huge changes.

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