Prev Next

Day 6

Dirty looks from other girls!

I am a 22 year old girl who does not look threatening or thug like in any way possible yet sometimes when i'm walking down the street or shopping or something I notice that other girls give me dirty looks?

I am not being paranoid because my ex used to notice people give me these looks too.

If i'm already having a bad day its not the greatest feeling, makes me feel like the world is against me :(

does anyone else notice other women give them dirty looks?

  • 20771 Readers       9 Comments      

Hide Comments (9)

  • littleTea littleTea
    90 months ago

    sometimes people don't evenrealsie they are doing it. Many a time I have been out and am deep in thought about something that has made me angry when I suddenly realsie I have been staring at someone and unintenionally giving them dirty looks.....

    Advice Rating:

  • littleTea littleTea
    90 months ago

    * even realise...

    Advice Rating:

  • Anonymous Anonymous
    90 months ago

    Be confident on u. Ur not ugly at all. Doesnt mind ppl thinking patterns we can not change them. but one thing u r beautiful

  • Cltld Cltld
    90 months ago

    I live in Paris & being given dirty looks from head to toe is happening all the time

  • Beautiful Disaster Beautiful Disaster
    90 months ago

    I learnt through life and being in a position to be stared at on a daily basis due to working on the streets that the best way to handle this is to simply smile....Many would say just look right back at them the same way but that doesn't nothing , Just smile, it throws them right out of the moment x

    Advice Rating:

  • Anonymous Anonymous
    90 months ago

    This reminds me of an Ani DiFranco song, "32 Flavors": And God help you if you are an ugly girl / 'Course too pretty is also your doom / 'Cause everyone harbors a secret hatred / For the prettiest girl in the room.

  • Anonymous Anonymous
    90 months ago

    I get them all the time for how I look especially from other women.

    Advice Rating:

  • Anonymous Anonymous
    90 months ago

    I've never noticed dirty looks myself, but some of my friends say that they notice dirty looks that other women give me (especially if they have a man with them). All I can think is that I just look that damn good. It's sad that other women might feel threatened though.

    So I think you should just think that they give you dirty looks because you look that DAMN GREAT!

    Advice Rating:

  • LeonaJo Mae LeonaJo Mae
    30 months ago

    I often struggle with this issue also. I have always made a point to dress well with light but good looking makeup and my hair is always in good form. I get ridiculous up and down looks from other women who look a bit like they fell out of bed and found the front door shortly after. I want to tell them, it's really not my fault you don't give a damn about your own apperance. We shouldn't be afraid of being pretty or sexy simply because other women are unsecure or unwilling to put in the effort to look nice. On that note however, I don't think it should be encouraged to say anything to them. This is a silent war that women battle each other, and I am personally curious to see if this new era of femininity will be a catalyst of change.

You need to be registered or signed in to post a comment

Register

Welcome to Pencourage.

|

Dismiss Notification

Back To Top