Disappointing life choices
So this week we’ve found out my little cousins girlfriends pregnant (she’s 18) My family are now planning my little cousins life.
The bit that disappoints me is that he’s a supervisor in a bar (up for management) and they are trying to push him into apprenticeships because working in a bar isn’t good enough....
I’ve worked and managed in bars and hotels for 8 years and I’ve worked hard, I’m proud of myself but it hurts to hear them be so against what I do... I’ve just had my first baby myself and I have no plans on retraining. It just hurt so hearing everyone’s honest opinion on what I do... I suddenly feel like their looking down on me, my mum says I shouldn’t feel so bad because I’m really qualified and actually work at it rather than just use it for partying. It’s my dads side saying these things and now I feel like a child’s because I’m saying “my mum says” hahaha!!