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Day 448

Do not pass go.

I've become keen on a lady. She'd told me, unprompted, that where she grew up then guys asked to court girls as a precursor to dating.

I took her out for lunch today. It was meant to be next week with my kids but she'd double booked. She was still keen to go out, so that was fine.

After a lovely lunch, good conversation, coffee elsewhere with more conversation, I walked her back to get car.

On the way, I asked her if I could court her. She said no. No, because I've got kids and she'd want to be her partner's number one. She couldn't be with me, because I've got kids.

I can understand that. She deserves that.

Doesn't stop it hurting though.

Do not pass go. Do not collect £200.

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  • George Smith George Smith
    13 months ago

    ! .... well at least that was made clear straight away... but I'm sorry. I can understand your hurt. There will be others. xx

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  • Tammie Tammie
    13 months ago

    I agree with George, at least she was up front about what she wanted and didn't keep you dangling. And the hurt will ease. Xxx

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  • Bettedavis Bettedavis
    13 months ago

    Yes there will be others
    She is not right for you if she cannot accept Children you come as a package
    Why not try Online dating ?

  • Plume de nom Plume de nom
    13 months ago

    Bettedavis, I'm considering that. I'm not sure I'm quite ready for it yet.

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