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Day 419

Flying Solo.... once again....

If you've followed me for lo these many years, you know my search for the one and only seems endless. I thought I came close with Charmante, but it turned out I was really dating a child in a woman's body. So that's that.

Then, straight out of her arms I flew into "Red," I woman I had actually met ten years before, and re-connected with. And it was a very "adult" relationship: we had wonderful times together seeing movies, traveling to far off places, laughing at what we saw, and trying to figure out the world around us. We also supported one another in numerous ways. It was a very satisfying relationship....

.... well, if you didn't count the fact that I didn't feel sexual attraction towards her. I don't know why: she is incredibly sexy and quite attractive, but oddly enough, I didn't find her arousing.....

So last Thursday she stopped by and told me what I hoped she would tell me: she was feeling like our "relationship" was more like a "friendship," and that maybe that was for the best. It wasn't easy for her, and she cried, and I wasn't angry, because I felt the same way.

Flying solo again....

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  • Miss Pickles Miss Pickles
    9 months ago

    I thought u were someone else ( The Mousie ) !!!

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  • RavDiablo RavDiablo
    9 months ago


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  • Bettedavis Bettedavis
    8 months ago

    Sexual attraction is always needed in relationships without it is just that a Friendship
    Onwards and upwards

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