I owe my body the luxury of his touch...
Well it's been a while. Probably around 3 years if not more since I came on here... but this is the only place I hope to seek advice without judgement.
I'm in a 2.5 year relationship with an incredible man. He spoils me, he treats me amazingly, he makes me laugh... he's a dream he really is.
The sex... Just isn't there. I've always been a sexual person but I feel like there's some clicks missing. It was better at the start but he didn't make my head spin, and never has even with kissing.
3 years ago I was seeing a man for around 4 months until he moved away. Lovely man. In sex we could not have clicked more. He touched me like I don't think anyone will ever will again.
I get waves now and again in my current relationship pining for the sexual desire of the other man. Tonight I've lost it and don't know where else to turn.
I love my partner more than anything but I just wish I could bring that other fire into this relationship. I have tried suggesting things to bring it aspects of that sex to no avail.