My boyfriend's family initially invited me to a holiday vacation with them, but his eldest sister changed her mind because it costs more to have me along.
So I was left behind. I told my bf that he still has to go, because it would reflect badly on me if I stopped him from going.
We weren't prepared for the extra fees for my stay at the hotel because we thought his sister would handle it, since they invited us. Maybe she changed her mind.
So there he is, on a 3 day holiday.. and here I am... feeling bummed. Well, he feels bummed out too.
There was really nothing we could do. It was a losing situation for me.
I'm just trying not to keep a grudge and keep in mind that when I get invited I should be prepared with my own expenses. Always.
I just wanted to get that off my chest.
I'm off to see some art installations to keep my mind of things. :)