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Day 108

New Reality

The past few days have apparently been momentous... and I only know because a friend said “oh, have your heard.” My musician’s family sucks at keeping me in the loop. They didn’t know about me before so I guess they think I’m not that important.

The friend with the info pointed out that I have to figure out how to get along with them. This is a long journey, and that journey is the new reality.

The New Reality.

She’s right. This is the way it is and this is all our relationship can be for the foreseeable future. Everything takes place with his family as intermediary. No more long chats, no more goofy gif conversations, no more privacy. This is not what I signed up for when I fell in love with him. It doesn’t change the fact that I am in love with him, it just means I’m not in the relationship I expected. That’s going to take some getting used to.

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  • runcicle runcicle
    3 weeks ago

    I suspect that no-one is in the relationship that they expected, and that each person has a different version.

    It's always the wrong version that causes the hurt.

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