Yes, I know social media is how we all keep tabs on our different relationships, but when I date, I prefer to keep it all on the down low. That is, I have my "online presence" and whomever I happen to be dating/in a relationship has her own.
New-Ex insisted on being a "friend" on Facebook, and it never went well. We did post some nice photos of one another to share with our friends, but it also became her tool to keep tabs on me. If I posted something and a woman responded whom she didn't know, an interrogation was sure to follow. "How do you know her?" "When was the last time your saw her?" "Are you still interested in her?" "Why did you respond to her post?"
But it was all part of her fear and insecurity, which I think is rooted in the fact that her father had affairs which he kept hidden from the family until after he passed away. So she transferred this behavior to me.
Bubbles is much more easy going about this; she hasn't insisted on "friending" me on Facebook, and even if she did, I don't think it would bother me.
And you? Tell me!