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Day 8

The distance is going to be a problem

We were always going to be long distance, at least for stretches of time while he was on tour. But now there’s no plan. There’s no way of knowing how far he’ll come and in what time frame. He finally admitted he’s frustrated with his lack of progress lately, though I still don’t think he’s giving it his all. Physical therapy can only get you so far if you only do the exercises in your session. I try and talk to him about it and he says I need to chill out. But this is my future too.

It’s gone from I need to get out of here now can I bring my dog to maybe I’ll get to see you next summer when you’re here on vacation. If I don’t see him again until I go out there then that will be almost a whole year between visits. That’s not a relationship. On the other hand do I really want him coming here if he can’t do anything? If he can’t play or write what’s he going to do? Watch tv and sponge off of me? Fork that.

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  • RavDiablo RavDiablo
    6 months ago

    DHSA: "Dump His Sorry Ass"

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  • miranda_b miranda_b
    5 months ago

    I’ve considered it Rav, but you don’t stop loving someone because the get in a car accident. Isn’t part of loving someone standing by them when bad things happen? Helping them through the hard days and being supportive?

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  • RavDiablo RavDiablo
    5 months ago

    I've thought about that, because Charmante had a daughter who was deeply troubled, and it totally fucked with our relationship. I tried and tried to help, but I got nowhere, and patience didn't work too well either. In the end, I had to end it, because I didn't see a future in loving someone who was going to be less and less available, with no end in sight.

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